In the shifting societal landscape around cannabis, many find themselves needing to navigate generational gaps in understanding and perspective. For parents and their adult children, this can create unique challenges and opportunities. So, how can you bridge this gap and engage your parent in a meaningful conversation about cannabis?
Understanding the Generation Gap
A quote from Carl Sagan, a well-known cannabis advocate and respected scientist, illustrates the shifting perspective on cannabis quite well. He once said, “The illegality of cannabis is outrageous, an impediment to full utilization of a drug which helps produce the serenity and insight, sensitivity and fellowship so desperately needed in this increasingly mad and dangerous world.”
While Sagan’s words reflect a more recent acceptance and endorsement of cannabis, it’s crucial to recognize that older generations may not share this perspective. Depending on your parent’s age, they might have grown up during the height of the “War on Drugs” era, where cannabis was largely demonized and criminalized. This historical context could have formed his perception of cannabis as strictly taboo or illicit. Understanding this generational gap is the first step in facilitating a meaningful conversation about cannabis with your parent.
Preparation is Key
Before beginning the conversation, equip yourself with up-to-date, factual information about cannabis. Utilize trusted resources like the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) or studies published in peer-reviewed journals. According to a report by the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, “In adults with chronic pain, patients who were treated with cannabis or cannabinoids are more likely to experience a clinically significant reduction in pain symptoms.” This type of concrete information can help alleviate any fears or misconceptions your parent might have.
Maintain an Open Dialogue
Creating an open and understanding environment is essential when discussing a potentially controversial topic like cannabis. The renowned psychologist and author, Carl R. Rogers, once said, “When someone really hears you without passing judgment on you, without trying to take responsibility for you, without trying to mold you, it feels damn good.”
When engaging in a conversation with your parent about cannabis, strive to create this empathetic space where both of you can share your perspectives freely. Actively listen to your parent’s concerns and address them with the respect and patience they deserve. It’s essential to remember that understanding does not necessarily mean agreement, but it paves the way for mutual respect and a deeper connection.
Use Relatable Analogies
Sometimes, the best way to convey a new concept is by drawing parallels to something more familiar. Even though we consider cannabis to be healthier than alcohol, using it as an analogy can be an effective way to facilitate understanding.
You could explain that, much like alcohol, cannabis can be used recreationally. However, unlike alcohol, which can have severe health consequences even when consumed moderately, cannabis is often considered to have less harmful effects and can provide specific health benefits when used appropriately.
Frame the discussion in a context that your parent might find more relatable. This way, you can explore the complexities of cannabis use together, in a way that aligns with their understanding and perspective.
Discussing the Medical Aspects
When discussing the medical applications of cannabis, it’s helpful to reference authoritative sources. Dr. Sanjay Gupta, a well-respected neurosurgeon and CNN’s chief medical correspondent, has been instrumental in shifting the public dialogue about cannabis. In an open letter to then U.S. Attorney General Jeff Sessions, Dr. Gupta stated, “Not only can cannabis work for a variety of conditions such as epilepsy, multiple sclerosis and pain, sometimes, it is the only thing that works.”
Sharing these potential benefits, backed by such an authoritative figure in the medical field, could change the conversation for some parents. It’s essential to highlight reputable studies on conditions that cannabis is believed to help with, such as chronic pain, epilepsy, or even the side effects of chemotherapy. This can add credence to the argument and help dispel common misconceptions about the substance’s medicinal value.
Talk About Responsible Use
Just like with anything else in life, using cannabis responsibly is vital. This means not only being aware of the amount you consume but also understanding the broader effects and implications of its use.
One crucial aspect to discuss is the importance of knowing your limits. Everyone has a different tolerance level when it comes to cannabis, and what might be a comfortable amount for one person could be overwhelming for another. Stress that it’s always best to start with a small amount, especially when trying a new strain or method of consumption, and to take it slow.
Involve Them in the Learning Process
Encourage your parent to learn more on their own, whether that’s through reading articles, watching documentaries, or even coming into the dispensary together. Sharing resources like the book Cannabis Medicine: A Guide to the Practice of Cannabinoid Medicine by David Bearman, M.D., could foster their interest.
By having a respectful, open, and informed conversation, you can bridge the generational gap and help your parent understand cannabis from your perspective. Remember, the goal isn’t necessarily agreement, but understanding and mutual respect.